When white liberal feminists label Beyoncé as anti-feminist, they are simply perpetuating the same racist partiarchy they’re supposed to be combating.Beyoncé is at the center of her own media empire, no small feat for a woman of color in a racist, patriarchal society. Equally important, she embodies empowered sexuality. When she dances, the passion and commitment exudes in her every step. Her body is her own; she owns it and uses it as she sees fit. When she wears a unitard or “skimpy” outfit, something many dancers wear, mind you, she is showing off her impeccable body, her temple, her source of strength, and all that it can do. She is forcing those of us who are clinging to our puritanical notions of propriety to sit down, shut up, and watch raw, unbridled talent and skill. And yes, she is a feminist while doing it.
When white women get to decide who is “feminist enough,” particularly around women of color, they are perpetuating racism. They are policing the boundaries of who is acceptable and who isn’t. This is nothing more than a tool of racist patriarchy wrapped in feminist rhetoric. Yes, racist. It is decidedly racist the way white mainstream feminist organizations police women of color’s feminist credentials, the way white liberal feminists reduce Beyoncé to a gyrating slut with a potty mouth.
If white feminists want to be seen as inclusive, as truly revolutionary, as working to end alloppressive power systems, they must stop perpetuating those oppressions themselves. Exclusionary boundaries of who is an acceptable feminist and who isn’t does nothing for feminism except perpetuate racism, heterosexism, cissexism, classism, and other forms of bigotry and oppression. The incessant questioning of Beyoncé’s character and choices is simply a reflection of the latent bigotry that exists in feminist spaces.
Until white feminists stop policing women of color’s feminist credentials, they are doomed to repeat the same racist patriarchy we are supposed to be combating.
love this! recommend reading the whole thing at the source.
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This is from a few of his tweets this afternoon, and he’s a great person to follow on Twitter. Brilliant. Daily.
Anyway, I answered the first part of his tweet by saying “She’s like Obama. They challenge and reaffirm patriarchy. Most Black people do. And then, some ONLY reaffirm, which sucks.”
He then went on to mention that she “fence straddles” which is a term I’ve used myself at home when discussing this with one of my sisters. I think many Black celebrities are somewhere in the middle, moving away and challenging certain damaging things and affirming others…figuring themselves out. (Of course some Black celebrities refuse to challenge anything, and some of their fans are the same way, so there’s that…)
I think there are many Black people, in general, who are aware of the damage caused by internalized White supremacist thinking, patriarchy, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, classism, colourism and more, and challenge it in many ways, but affirm it in others. Feminism is a continuum. No one wakes up as bell hooks, including bell hooks. She was Gloria Watkins before too, figuring this feminism thing out. She herself writes in each subsequent book how she evolves.
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Tim Holt on why we still see the number of females in STEM fields fall way behind their male counterparts. Also see how geography paved the way for women in science.
(Source: explore-blog, via kyidyl)
Here is the thing, okay? Coming into a feminist conversation with, “Have you considered that sometimes women acquire free drinks at bars?” is like walking into graduate school during Philosophy finals and saying, “Have you considered that the color blue that I see may not be the color blue that you see?”
Imagine you are the guy who just walked into that Philosophy class and laid that shit down. Imagine the class full of students who have worked very hard and committed themselves and sacrificed to be here, students who have spent several years of their lives learning about this subject. Imagine now their feelings when you go to the head of the classroom with a smirk on your face and demand the professor give you an A for effort. Imagine now that they think you are a douchebag asshole, because they do, and because you are. You are a douchebag asshole because you are obviously so self-centered, arrogant, and completely ignorant of the world around you, that you thought you could walk into a high-level course with no background and no work and say something profoundly simplistic and totally unrelated and also everybody should congratulate you for having done this thing, so brave, so provocative.
[….]
You are not asking us a real question. You are simply illustrating, for all to see, your own ignorance. You are saying, “I have not considered the implications of the question I have just asked. I have not taken the time nor effort nor commitment to sit down and ask myself this question. Instead, I have come into your philosophy classroom/office/feminist blog and shat out my question with a smirk, because I believe that my two seconds of thought are worth more than your long-term analysis, because I believe I am worth more.”
(Source: raxn, via tumblinfeminist)
One half of the humans are female, so one half of the scientists should be female.
- Bill Nye at the Storytelling of Science at ASU
Yes, exactly. We need more girls going into science! Now there aren’t many Nobel Prizes being given to women, mostly because society pushed them away from science decades ago. But now that can all be changed, if more girls go into science.
I believe that there are a small group of women who hate men just for being men. I believe that the textbook definition of the word misandry fits that description. I believe there are bad things that happen to men. I believe those issues should be addressed. I do not believe that a fringe group of women who hate men can be blamed for those issues.
Misandry was a dead word until recently. A group of men who feared the progress of feminism revived the word and used it to undercut the movement. They like having the power being a man provides and they don’t want to lose that. So they created a movement, found a bunch of legitimate issues that affect men, and tried to blame women for those issues. They called this misandry. It’s like conservatives using buzzwords like “death panels” to make people fear health care. They let people assume it meant Obama wanted to kill your grandma. They let their cute little phrase infect the minds of good people and convince them of falsehoods.
People are telling me that men cannot report rape without getting laughed at. They say this is misandry. It is the fault of women who hate men. But that just doesn’t make any sense to me. When I seek a logical explanation, it seems more likely that this is because men are supposed to be strong and women are supposed to be weak. And rape has been viewed as something that happens mostly to women. So if it does happen to a man, they must be weak. How did this idea of men=strong and women=weak start? I’m pretty sure it wasn’t because of misandry. It is an ancient patriarchy collapsing in on itself.
Feminism is about fighting inequality. It’s about erasing the strong/weak perception ingrained into our society. Misandry, as the term is often used today, is about trying to blame women for anything bad that happens to men.
If you want to fight to fix issues that affect men, go for it. But I would really consider distancing yourself from this term. It is used to evangelize folks into a movement that is very problematic. A group that can’t handle scrutiny of their comic books and video games, so they send death and rape threats. A group that calls women sluts and think they ask for rape if they show too much cleavage. Those are the people who coined this term, and you should want nothing to do with them or their language.
This is one of the best responses to this sort of question I’ve ever seen
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| Society: | Were you wearing revealing clothing when you were raped? |
| In other words: | Men, it is ok to rape a woman if she is wearing revealing clothing. |
| In other words: | It is ok to ridicule a woman for wearing revealing clothing. |
| In other words: | The bodies of women are innately sexual and need to be covered up. |
| In other words: | Women wearing revealing clothing could not possibly be dressing for the weather, they are merely asking for sex. |
| In other words: | Women, you are not allowed to wear whatever you want. |
| Society: | Were you alone when you were raped? |
| In other words: | Men, it is ok to rape a woman if she is alone. |
| In other words: | Women, you are only safe from men if you are in a group. |
| Society: | Were you drunk when you were raped? |
| In other words: | Men, it is ok to rape a woman if she is drunk. |
| In other words: | Women, it is unsafe to be drunk. Ever. |
| Society: | Did you fight back when you were raped? |
| In other words: | Men, if a woman is too scared to fight back, it is ok to rape her. |
| In other words: | Women, fear is not an excuse for not fighting back. |
| In other words: | Women, only violence will show a man that you truly mean "no I do not want to have sex". |
| Society: | Bitch, Cunt, pussy, whore, and slut are all socially acceptable insults. |
| In other words: | It is an insult to be feminine, and/or have feminine genitalia. |
| In other words: | It is not ok for women to be promiscuous. |
| Society: | When a girl gets raped and there is a picture taken, it is perfectly natural to call her a slut. |
| In other words: | It is a girl's fault if she gets raped. |
| In other words: | Boys, you will gain notoriety if you rape a girl. |
| In other words: | Ridiculing a victim of sexual assault is a societal norm and you are stupid if you do not join in. |
| Society: | If a girl is raped, she must have provoked it somehow. |
| In other words: | Men cannot be held accountable for their own actions. |
| In other words: | Men are like wild animals that cannot stop themselves. |
| Society: | Nice ass, you look sexy, etc. are all acceptable compliments to a woman. |
| In other words: | There is no such thing as sexual harrassment. |
| In other words: | Women should be gratified that men want to have sex with them. |
| In other words: | A man being interested in a woman automatically means she is obliged to be interested back. |
| Society: | Beautiful, pretty, sexy, fuckable etc. are the best compliments a woman can get. |
| In other words: | Women have no value except in their physical appearance. |
| In other words: | Women should not be measured by their intelligence or actual skills. |
| In other words: | Women exist to be physically desirable to men. |
| Society: | It is natural for men to wolf-whistle and call "compliments" after a woman, slap her ass, etc. |
| In other words: | Women, all men are pigs and there is nothing you can do about it. |
| In other words: | Women, you must grin and bear sexual harrassment. |
| In other words: | Men, to be a true man you must sexually harrass women. |
| Society: | There is nothing wrong with the wage gap. |
| In other words: | Women are inherently worth less than men. |
| In other words: | It is wrong for a woman to want equal pay. |
| In other words: | Women are not as suitable for work as men are. |
| In other words: | Men, women are worth less than you and it is ok to ridicule them because they do not matter. |
| Society: | It is not ok to protest sexism. |
| In other words: | Sexism does not exist. |
| In other words: | Equality does not apply to women. |
| In other words: | Feminists must be kept in line by a backlash of hate. |
| In other words: | Feminists are automatically man-haters |
| In other words: | Feminists are threatening to men. |
| In other words: | Men, it is not ok to support equal rights for women. |
| Feminism: | This is not an ok society to live in. |
ive noticed that tumblr has this white women vs. black women thing going on and i mean
cant we all just be women without a skin color attached to our identities…?
I’ve noticed this too.
I’ve noticed that when black women try to talk amongst themselves about experiences unique to them, there’s always one of us white women who just HAS to jump in on it and make it about us. I’ve noticed that we white women consistently refuse to acknowledge the effect of racism on black women’s lives and the effect of white privilege on our own. I’ve noticed that black women do nothing to invite this kind of disrespect, and when they object to it, we turn around and cry out that we’re being attacked when we started it.
I can’t be a woman without a skin color attached to my identity because I always have my white skin and that always affects how people treat me. Just as it’s impossible to get rid of one’s skin color for real, it’s impossible to detach it from one’s identity, because it shapes one’s entire life. Being a black woman in the world is a different experience from being a white woman. I know that because I listen to what black women say, but I can never know what it’s like, and I have a responsibility to respect black women’s ongoing conversation about that experience by staying out of it and not trying to claim a share.
Please don’t talk about this like it’s an equal conflict where both sides need to contribute toward a resolution. We always start it and we’re the ones who need to stop it.
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(Source: lionsandmicee)